I love the message of this video.
It reminds me of a distinction that came out loud and clear the last time I re-read “Cosmic Trigger volume 1” by Robert Anton Wilson. It had to do with a personal tragedy Robert went through that taught him the true meaning of the Buddhist idea of stopping the wheel of karma.
Robert’s teenage daughter Luna suffered a beating at the hands of a group of other teenagers. On the day of the incident, she was understandably upset. By the next day, she had let it all go and harbored no ill will towards the other kids. Instead, she wished them well and hoped they could get over whatever hurt was causing them to act out. That was when Robert got what the idea of stopping the wheel of karma is all about. Luna did not simply let the attack fade from her history. Instead, she actively transmuted the energy into a positive outpouring of compassion and care for others.
This is what stopping the wheel of karma is all about. It’s not simply minding our own actions. The true practice is taking negative circumstances, refusing to pass their ripples on, and instead transforming them into positive actions and caring for others. From the few times I’ve actually been able to pull this off, I have a deep respect for the amount of mindfulness it takes.
When I was a young lad, I was the target of a fair amount of bullying. Unfortunately, my response was to become a bully myself for a few years. I regret that and wish I had learned the tools to return positivity for negativity at that time.
In the moment that we are receiving negative energy, it can be very difficult to not fire back, and we miss out on the immediate satisfaction provided by making a clever quip. However, if we hold out the long-term returns of not returning bad vibes are much more rewarding. To paraphrase Sean Stephenson, “Drinking a beer can feel refreshing, but finishing ‘War & Peace’ after years of saying we wanted to will provide a fulfillment that will last the rest of our lives.”