A long time ago, in a body far, far away…
As you may know from my blog I am a fan of 1,000 day vows. My first one was to do Tai Chi every day, without exception, for 1,000 days. As you might imagine there were some challenges along the way.
The challenges came in many forms, but a little over half way through, 521 days in to be exact, I was feeling a bit despondent about the whole thing. I was 22 years old at the time and at a party. As I sipped my beer I spoke with a dear friend, confiding in her my feelings that it really didn’t actually matter. I mused that if I stopped the only one who might notice was me. I was feeling pretty blue about the whole thing.
She offered several counter arguments, but the one that got me was this, “If you stop now you will lose all that time and you would have to start from day 1 if you ever decided to do it again in the future.” (That’s not an exact quote. My memory is not that good.)
That got me. It called on a central character trait I used to consider a flaw, but now consider a strength: laziness. It may not seem lazy to have decided to forge ahead for another 479 days of Tai Chi, but the truth is I never wanted to face another 1,000!
It got me through. Of course I did do another 1,000 day vow later in life, but that was for meditation so at least I got to sit through it.






