Living Life the Easier Way

There is a good article over at LifeHack.org today - 10 virtually instant ways to improve your life

I won’t repeat the article here, but here are the ten points:

  1. Stop jumping to conclusions.
  2. Don’t dramatize.
  3. Don’t invent rules.
  4. Avoid stereotyping or labeling people or situations.
  5. Quit being a perfectionist.
  6. Don’t over-generalize.
  7. Don’t take things so personally.
  8. Don’t assume your emotions are trustworthy.
  9. Don’t let life get you down.
  10. Don’t hang on to the past.

All of these are excellent suggestions, and Adrian Savage does a great job of expounding on them.  I can’t help but note that there is one central running theme in them all:

Stop making more Story.

Life is what it is before we begin the mental process of categorization, labeling, prioritization, judgment and comparison.  Life is, as it is, before we create the Story.   One of the distinctions I learned a few years back is that Human beings are, first and foremost, meaning making machines.  Whatever comes into our sphere of experience is nearly instantaneously run through the meaning making machine of our minds in order to squash the fear of the unknown.  We do this so automatically that we hardly ever notice what we are doing, how we deaden the glow of what is.  When there is a break in this process we experience states of awe and being struck by beauty.  Quickly enough though, we get right back to the daily order of business and assign meaning.

The sages through the ages have pointed at this mechanism, and the mistaking of those assigned meanings for reality, as the source of all human suffering.

The path of Self-Inquiry asks us to examine what is, before that process takes place.  And, by so doing come face to face with the reality that we are.

The mechanism of meaning making is vitally important to our survival, as individuals and as a species.  It is not to be shunned.  Rather, it is to be recognized, and kept in perspective for what it is: a useful tool.  When it become more than that, when it become a replacement, and substitute, for reality the tool becomes a poison.

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5 Responses to “Living Life the Easier Way”

  1. Holly Bertsch Says:

    Great site! If only more people thought like this!

  2. Travis E Says:

    Glad you enjoy it. Thanks for commenting!

  3. Travis Eneix » A Very New Bloggers First Mini-Viral Experience Says:

    […] Then, on July 16th, I posted a commentary on another bloggers post, Living Life the Easier Way. A commentary post is where you make a follow up to something another blogger wrote that moved you to post. In this case it was 10 virtually instant ways to improve your life by Leo over at ZenHabits.net. In the following three days I got 35,000 hits!! My daily average for this month is now 3,391. […]

  4. Tejvan Pettinger Says:

    Basically live in the heart and be wary of the judgements of the mind.

  5. Travis Says:

    Agreed, Tejvan!

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Living Life the Easier Way

There is a good article over at LifeHack.org today - 10 virtually instant ways to improve your life

I won’t repeat the article here, but here are the ten points:

  1. Stop jumping to conclusions.
  2. Don’t dramatize.
  3. Don’t invent rules.
  4. Avoid stereotyping or labeling people or situations.
  5. Quit being a perfectionist.
  6. Don’t over-generalize.
  7. Don’t take things so personally.
  8. Don’t assume your emotions are trustworthy.
  9. Don’t let life get you down.
  10. Don’t hang on to the past.

All of these are excellent suggestions, and Adrian Savage does a great job of expounding on them.  I can’t help but note that there is one central running theme in them all:

Stop making more Story.

Life is what it is before we begin the mental process of categorization, labeling, prioritization, judgment and comparison.  Life is, as it is, before we create the Story.   One of the distinctions I learned a few years back is that Human beings are, first and foremost, meaning making machines.  Whatever comes into our sphere of experience is nearly instantaneously run through the meaning making machine of our minds in order to squash the fear of the unknown.  We do this so automatically that we hardly ever notice what we are doing, how we deaden the glow of what is.  When there is a break in this process we experience states of awe and being struck by beauty.  Quickly enough though, we get right back to the daily order of business and assign meaning.

The sages through the ages have pointed at this mechanism, and the mistaking of those assigned meanings for reality, as the source of all human suffering.

The path of Self-Inquiry asks us to examine what is, before that process takes place.  And, by so doing come face to face with the reality that we are.

The mechanism of meaning making is vitally important to our survival, as individuals and as a species.  It is not to be shunned.  Rather, it is to be recognized, and kept in perspective for what it is: a useful tool.  When it become more than that, when it become a replacement, and substitute, for reality the tool becomes a poison.

If you liked this post please spread it around with one of the links below! ;-): These icons link to social bookmarking sites where readers can share and discover new web pages.
  • Digg
  • del.icio.us
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5 Responses to “Living Life the Easier Way”

  1. Holly Bertsch Says:

    Great site! If only more people thought like this!

  2. Travis E Says:

    Glad you enjoy it. Thanks for commenting!

  3. Travis Eneix » A Very New Bloggers First Mini-Viral Experience Says:

    […] Then, on July 16th, I posted a commentary on another bloggers post, Living Life the Easier Way. A commentary post is where you make a follow up to something another blogger wrote that moved you to post. In this case it was 10 virtually instant ways to improve your life by Leo over at ZenHabits.net. In the following three days I got 35,000 hits!! My daily average for this month is now 3,391. […]

  4. Tejvan Pettinger Says:

    Basically live in the heart and be wary of the judgements of the mind.

  5. Travis Says:

    Agreed, Tejvan!

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