Why Every Blogging Course Ever Is Not Worth It

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I like being a blogger. It affords me several opportunities without many of the conditions that used to be tied up with them. Being a blogger, you get to exercise your creativity as a writer. You get to choose any subject matter you’d like. You get to play the roles of critic if you’d like. You can cast yourself in the position of restaurant reviewer. You can tackle any editorial opinion piece you would care too. You can write fiction if you’d like. Or surrealist commentary. Or high literature.

All of this without the constraints of a boss telling you what to write, or an editor to get your pieces past. You don’t have to risk losing your job to say what’s on your mind.

This freedom and flexibility are a double edged sword. You also have no one to focus your attention, and no one to help craft your pieces into a more refined form.

However, since you don’t have a schedule to adhere too, you can write as much as you’d like to get the experience needed for producing well crafted pieces. Plus, you can find your own voice more easily since no one else has a say about how you say things.

Not every blogger makes money, nor do they all get a big audience. That’s okay though, because the real reasons that will drive anyone to be insistent enough to gather income, and an audience, will be passion about the subjects they take on. If your not passionate about writing, and some subjects you can drill into, then you can still blog to get all the creative benefits. However achieving fame and fortune (or a side income and some frequent followers) is probably not in the cards for you.

In my time as a blogger I have invested in a couple of courses from some highly successful bloggers. Training materials on how to blog, and how to be successful at it.

Let me tell you; I don’t think their worth it.

Don’t get me wrong. They offer some good advice. My problem with them is two fold.

One, the advice they offer is mostly the same and pretty basic. I’ll post those as bullet points at the end of this piece.

First though, let’s deal with my second issue. Namely they fit you into a course of doing what the course provider does. Not exactly the name, and it’s not like going through a cookie cutter process, but in the end what they have to teach is what they do. That, my friends, is the evil opposite of what those self same successful bloggers have done. Namely, be unique.

In order to stand out, you have to stand out. It’s no good wrapping every piece you do in as much advertising as possible. Someone already does that. It’s no use being sardonic about everything. Someone already does that. It’s no use including a numbered list in every post. Someone already does that.

If you do the same as what someone else does, then what you will inevitably face is comparisons. People will see your blog and immediately think of the one you are emulating. Mostly what you end up doing is providing that other person with free advertising. You bring their site to mind and suddenly attention is drifting away from yours.

That’s not really what you want.

What you want is people coming to your space and immediately knowing where they are. You want to stand out., and be recognizable.

Blogging, in and of itself, is a place where people want to see the real and different you. If you get followers, it will be because they like you and what you do. Not because they like how you copy what someone else does. Followers want to get to know you. It’s followers that you want. Not only readers. The difference is followers are fans. The will be consistent and they will rave about your blog.

So, treat theses people like the gold they are. Any truly successful blog is built, not on the strength of the writing, but rather on the strength of its followers and fans. Respect these people, engage with them, and you will reap success.

This is probably a good point to list the things you’ll learn from every blogging course out there.

  • Get some ideas. I mean a big list of blog post ideas. Here’s my favorite way to do this: Get a pad and pen. Do a brainstorming session. Come up with seeds for 50 posts. If you can’t come up with 50 interesting post ideas, you may not be as passionate about your chosen subjects as you thought. Or, you may have some kind of hidden block to your creativity on this subject. Either way, once you have this list of 50 you’ll be set for the life of your blog. Inevitably you will come up with more ideas as you go on about your blogging. This list will become a fall back resource for those days when you are not sure what to write about. It will also become the place you dump cool post seeds as they occur to you.
  • Don’t expect anyone to find your blog just because it’s there. One of the things about being a solo writer/journalist/food critic/whatever is that you have no publicity machine behind you. You must hustle and get the word out there on your own. Family members, email contacts, Twitter buddies, Facebook friends. Leverage every connection you have. Let then now what your are blogging about. Ask them to check out your site, but don’t push it. You are not trying to convert all these folks. Their initial reading and support will get the ball rolling. Some may even become actual fans.
  • In the name of the Buddha, get an email list going!! People who want to hear from you want to hear from you! Make it easy for them. In the age of great list managing services like MailChimp, or Aweber, or TinyLetter there is no excuse not to do this. You can start for free with MailChimp. Don’t over think this. You don’t have to start a newsletter. A simple email letting people know you’ve posted is more than enough. Get a subscribe form up on your site, and ping your list whenever you put up something new.
  • Don’t think about advertising until you have a solid following, a good rate of comments, and a few thousand hits per month. I am talking about you advertising things on your site to make money. You won’t be able to pull this off until you have a consistent stream of people who want to visit. There are some exceptions here. If you are doing book reviews on your blog, then it’s okay to pop in an affiliate link to amazon.com, or wherever. Just lay off the Google adwords, and the banners, and widgets until you’ve got decent traffic and interaction.
  • Interaction trumps traffic. Hands down. Having a successful blog comes from getting interested and engaged readers, not from nameless eyes that glance at your site for a moment and move on. Interaction allows you to know what people are thinking, and can provide excellent feedback for improving your craft.
  • Be the most frequent commenter on your blog. What I mean by this is that (especially in the early stages) you should reply to each and every single comment you get. Sometimes this will be a simple thanks. Sometimes this will be a more involved answer to a question, or clarification of a point. The point here is to let people who bother commenting on your site know that you are bothering to read their comments. This kind of mutual acknowledgment goes a long way. A person who comments is much more likely to do so again if they have gotten a response. Everyone enjoys knowing they are being listened too, not just us bloggers. ;)
  • Make your site nice looking! Not too busy. And don’t keep any default layout for the platform you choose to blog on! Stand out, but don’t be loud. This is blogging, not MySpace. It’s not a bad idea to spend a little money here and buy a designed blog theme, but there are plenty of great options for all of the platforms out there.
  • Put yourself on a schedule! Consistency is a great thing for blogging and building an audience. Make a decision about how frequently you want to blog, and try to stick to it. This can (and should) change over time, so don’t feel like you are stuck with a post frequency, but try to develop some schedule you can stick to.

These are the bulk of what you will get in most courses. The golden rule, which I don’t see mentioned much, is to simply do it. Blog. Put some stuff out there, and see where it goes.

All of that being said, I reiterate my earlier point. None of the above are hard and fast rules. They are all suggestions. None of the very successful bloggers follow what other people do. The big girls and boys blogging out there have put in enough time to stand on their own feet and shine.

Some turn off comments. Some don’t do email lists. Some don’t use any blogging platform and simply code their posts in html/css as they put them up. There is no one right way to do this, other than the way that’s right for you!

So, go out there. Wander around the blogosphere and check out what’s out there. Try a couple of platforms. See what clicks for you, and go for it! You just might be the next Maddox!

Got questions? Thoughts? Rebuttals? Things I missed? Let me hear them in the comments below, and thanks for reading!

Judge Not, Lest Ye Be Judged

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Rant begins.

We humans do this funny thing. We judge people of past eras based on the knowledge, wisdom, and criteria of the current era we occupy.

Take the Bible for example. It says the earth and the heavens were made in 6 days. The methodology described is fantastical, and pure magic. Modern Christian apologists spend there time trying to smash together modern science’s findings about the big bang with the book of Genesis in an insane attempt to come up with something reasonable. They do this to stave off the laughter, and finger pointing, of modern educated people.

Does that make any sense at all?

I really don’t think so.

A bunch of shepherds and nomads looked to the night sky and tried to make sense of it all. They looked outside to the vast heavens and the horizon, and inwards toward their intuition and contemplation. They came up with something that worked for them, then. Trying to dove tail quantum mechanics and astrophysics, let alone a good old telescope and some geometry onto that is like forcing an adult to justify their fantasies of childhood with economic theory and political landscaping. It just makes no sense.

The human story is ongoing, unfolding, evolving. Trying to bring every old idea up to today’s scrutiny is a fool’s errand. Instead, why don’t we simply honor the roots of our history. Show some gratitude for the dim light in the dark night they provided so long ago, and be grateful the species survived to the point where we could make fun of it? Or, maybe even honor it for what it is.

Don’t get me wrong. I have no problem with how people want to spend their time, I mean it is their time, but really. Seriously? Come on people! Let the past be what it is! Stand on it and move forward! Honor it! Stop dragging it with you wherever you go! The species as a whole, I dare to think, will lurch forward at a better pace.

Rant ends.

The Slack of Scheduling

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I’ve been a productivity geek for a while now. One of the suggestions that is often made is to create a schedule for your day.

The trouble is I am more of a slack geek than a productivity geek. So, I have always balked at the idea of being tied to a schedule.

Recently though, I have been working with a coach, and he too has made this suggestion to me. So, I finally swallowed my objections and went for it.

I now schedule out, literally every second of my day. It has been an eye opening experience in several ways.

First, holy crap do I get more done!

It’s pretty obnoxious actually. Over the last week I have found myself routinely having days where I get three, or fours times the number of things I used to get done. I am also poking away at long standing projects that are very non-critical, but still present. My plate is squeaky clean most days, and my pantry of projects is getting that way too! It’s awesome.

Second, I had some wrong headedness about schedules that it took me trying one out to see.

This complaint that I had been holding on to went something like, “Schedule? No way! I worked hard to get out of an office gig! Ain’t no way I am going to let someone tell me when I need to do what!” You see the problem there? By scheduling myself, I am the one telling me when I need to do what. It’s a beautiful thing. I get to plug work time in when I know I have my most productive hours. I get to schedule in reading time too! I am getting so caught up on my reading it’s ridiculous! When you schedule yourself, you don’t have to hold to anyone else’s expectations. Want to tackle that blog piece at 2am? Go for it! It’s your schedule!

Third, I get to schedule in more than just work.

Meditation time, exercise time, super ample amounts of sleep, and did I mention reading? The reading part is pretty great. I also have a special part of my schedule for the evenings. I put in blocks labeled, “Fuck it.” These are times when I do whatever comes to mind. Catching up on video games, or TV series, or more reading, or catching a movie with a friend, or whatever. I am a big fan of the work of John C. Parkin, and his book, F**k It: The Ultimate Spiritual Way.

Fourth, and this rolls into the whole “fuck it” thing, I find an enormous freedom and relief in my body, mind, and soul at the end of the day.

Having had a day where I know I achieved things, and where I know I am set to do the same the next day, I get to let go and really relax and do whatever. It’s a subtle, but powerful feeling.

There are a couple of tricks that go into the way I run my schedule which might be helpful.

To begin, every single moment is scheduled. However, this is not so that I have to be stuck doing X at time Y, no matter what! Rather, these are time blocks I have chosen to dedicate to a certain activity, and that activity dominates my effort during that time. I allow for transition time by making the blocks ample in size. If interruptions come in, that’s fine, I just get back to the scheduled task as quickly as possible.

Next, I include an hour for “breakdown” at the end of the “work day.” This time is for seeing to anything that got pushed aside during the day, or for anything I missed (due to an earlier thing running over, or whatever.) This way I don’t have to freak out if the day goes off the rails. I can always put in the effort during the breakdown slot. Mostly I don’t find myself needing to do that, so on those days my breakdown becomes time for a nap, or more reading. (Reading is cool!)

Towards the end of the day I put in a half hour slot for “Review & Gratitude.” During this time I write a daily gratitude list, then I review how the day went in terms of my schedule. How many things did I say I would do? How many did I not do when I said I would do them? What did I do instead? Did those things that missed their time get done at all? (Like, during the breakdown.)

I schedule the next day while going through my “review & gratitude” block so I have a fresh idea of what is working, and what needs adjusting. Early on I found my mornings were a bit too crammed, and being not the morning person I am, things slipped a bit. After two days it became clear an adjustment was needed. The review period allowed me to see that clearly.

In order to keep my work flow on track, and my projects seen to, I use WorkFlowy. If you haven’t tried WorkFlowy, I highly recommend it! You can check it out at, workflowy.com. It’s everything you could want a to-do list and project management tool to be! The tutorials are easy to follow, and it’s terribly easy to use. Best of all, the free version is more than adequate to my purposes. (If you’d like to lend me a hand you can use my affiliate link https://workflowy.com/?ref=122a2725. That way, both you and I will get an extra 250 new items allowed per month. Thanks!)

In my schedule I put in half hour blocks to check on email. I put those right before my work blocks, and I pop to-do’s into WorkFlowy as I go through my email. Then, when the work block starts, I can easily see (and track) what needs doing.

If you are like me, this level of planning might seem a bit intimidating. I totally identify with that feeling! However, once you actually start doing it, it moves along quite well. As I mentioned before, I am now being much more productive, and I find myself feeling much freer and less emotionally burdened. Especially during my nightly “fuck it” slots!

Give it a try! I think you’ll like it! And, please do let me know how it works for you in the comments.

If you are already an experienced scheduler, I would love to hear from you too! Leave any tips and tricks in the comments so everyone can benefit.

Cheers!